A comprehensive guide to achieving effective compromise in an increasingly polarized world.
"Delightfully digestible and a spark of hope for future conversations."
-Evelyn Johnson, author of The Way the Dust Clings
Released June 11, 2026!
You Are Where You Sit: Lessons in Compromise in a Divided Country
You Are Where You Sit: Lessons in Compromise in a Divided Country is a comprehensive guide to achieving effective compromise in an increasingly polarized world. Author Rodger T. Kraft presents seven essential lessons drawn from historical examples, political negotiations, and business crises to demonstrate how compromise can resolve conflicts and bridge divides.
Following the central premise that people’s viewpoints are shaped by their circumstances, beliefs, and experiences-hence “you are where you sit,” Kraft argues that the erosion of basic societal values, amplified by mass media and social media manipulation, has created entrenched positions that make compromise increasingly difficult. He contends that viable solutions typically lie in the middle ground between opposing sides.
Meet Author Rodger T. Kraft
Rodger T. Kraft is an accomplished businessperson with over forty years’ experience during which he dealt with many contentious issues with colleagues, clients, and competitors. He used his personal and business experience to create the “You Are Where You Sit” philosophy and developed seven lessons to help readers achieve compromise or reevaluate deeply entrenched beliefs, enabling them to diffuse untenable situations they may face.
Always eager to learn, he earned his Doctor of Letters in literature and creative writing during his retirement. Rodger enjoys writing fiction, non-fiction, and poetry. His hobbies include travel, reading detective stories and mysteries, model railroading, and word games, as well as crossword and jigsaw puzzles.
Praise for Author Rodger T. Kraft
“An inside look at techniques and strategies that can aid dispute resolution efforts in virtually any setting.”
-Robert Rothman, author of A Terrible Guilt
“Rodger Kraft has written an important book sorely needed in today’s fractured political environment. This is a five-star book that deserves to be read and practiced widely.”
-Sherry Hobbs, author of Mac: The Wind Beneath My Wings
“Delightfully digestible and a spark of hope for future conversations.”
-Evelyn Johnson, author of The Way the Dust Clings
“Kraft uses principles in the fashion of `Getting to Yes’ within an anecdotal framework in the style of Doris Kearns Goodwin to show how mastering compromise can turn conflicts into opportunities and negotiations into lasting solutions!”
-Cam Torrens, bestselling author of the Tyler Zahn mystery/suspense series.
“Kraft offers plain spoken, practical pathways out of our polarized politics with fascinating examples from the world of sports, culture, business, and government. Entertaining, informative, and wise, if there is just one book you read this year about how to see our way clear in troubled times, make it Rodger Kraft’s You Are Where You Sit.”
-James Nehring, author of Everest and the Rest of Us
“Rodger T. Kraft has written a book that’s definitely needed in our times. You Are Where You Sit: Lessons in Compromise is a prescription for the disorder in our political lives. Non-fiction that’s so good you can’t ignore it.”